Congratulations to all the teens and their families receiving their results tomorrow. It can be a stressful time time even if the results are brilliant!
So a few top tips for parents:
Be positive – this is not the time for recriminations if the results are lower than expected or needed.
Be proud – focus on achievement rather than failure.
Offer advice about how and where to apply for further education if appropriate or help with researching apprenticeships, or resits.
Don't compare results with those of your teen's siblings or peers. It is undermining and counterproductive.
Consult the school for any advice and information especially if you – or they – think a paper should be remarked.
Be generous with some praise whatever the results.
Be present for hugs!
Celebrate with the whole family and make a fuss of your teen.
Anne Coates is the author of Applying to University: The Essential Guide and Surviving University as well as Parenting Without Tears Guide to Living with Teenagers.
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