Are your superstitions holding you back?
Magical thinking perhaps demonstrates the gullibility of humans, particularly in light of the fact that many such beliefs can be disproved. Track events on Friday 13th and compare the results with any other day and, unsurprisingly, there's no difference. One might imagine the superstitious belief itself could impact the results. Couldn't a belief that accidents will happen so distract believers that they become more prone to accidents? The studies suggest that even this doesn't happen.
What to do if you have a superstitious belief, or perhaps many such beliefs, that are limiting you in some way? Perhaps you can't venture out of the house on Friday 13th and that's costing you a day's vacation, on average twice a year.
Hypnotherapy can sometimes help. It works for some, but on its own success is far from certain and relapse rates are high. Cognitive Behavioural Techniques (CBT) are generally more effective and sustainable for most mind-related issues, particularly if they're combined with modern acceptance-based approaches such as Acceptance-Action Therapy (AAT).
A combined CBT-AAT treatment might involve challenging beliefs using an evidence-based approach, learning to accept any feelings such as anxiety and confronting the superstition by changing your behaviour.
When we act in ways that are consistent with an unproductive belief, we always reinforce the belief. Our mind gets a message that the belief must be true ... otherwise why are we behaving in that way. Conversely, if we repeatedly act in the opposite way, we'll undermine the belief.
Try the following steps to help you move past the superstition and stop it holding you back:
Do this repeatedly and the limiting belief, and any anxious feelings it may be generating, will soon disappear.
Graham W Price is a chartered psychologist, CBT specialist, coach, trainer and professional speaker. He is an accredited member of the British Psychological Society (BPS), the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies (BABCP) and the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) and a registered practitioner psychologist with the Health Professions Council (HPC).